What phrases get you going?

Hello Lovelies,

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Have you been behaving yourself this week? My guess is, NO! I’d like to start off by saying I’ve received a few contact forms with the wrong email address lately. Either someone thinks they’re funny or some of you have been rushing and adding your email incorrectly. If you’ve sent me a contact form and have not heard back from me, please re-send it. I’ve responded to all contact forms and have gotten several MAILER-DAEMON notices in return. The last one was yesterday morning from someone in Denver. That’s a waste of everyone’s time, so please, complete the contact form with care, enter your email address correctly and double check it.

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Now, on to the blog post.

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I find myself saying, “I am so disappointed in you”, multiple times in (nearly) every single spanking video I make. I don’t say it as much in person unless I know that individual well and they truly have disappointed me. I feel like it can be a phrase that triggers a lot of guilt & anxiety (maybe a few tears) so I typically use it with care but not so much when filming. I try to make realistic clips with true emotions, reactions, scenarios (Okay, not all the time!) and consequences but the fact of the matter is, it’s just not as personal as a session or when playing with someone close to me. There are lights and cameras and it’s start and stop sometimes. Don’t get me wrong, I love making clips! I enjoy sharing a bit of my world with you and I hope you enjoy watching them. But, it’s still not quite as authentic to me and I need your help.

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Coming Friday, 9/22/17 – Paddling two naughty boys.

I’ve noticed I tend to say, “I’m going to blister your butt” frequently, too. I was editing footage the other day and thought, Wow, how many times can I possibly say that?! While it’s true, I am gonna blister your butt, I’m tired of hearing myself say it on cam. It’s like I’m stuck in a rut or something. Does that ever happen to you? You get stuck on something and can’t think of the other things you used to do or say before that? I had one of my Life Coaching clients say she was stuck when planning her menu and she can’t think of what she used to fix before. My brain went ding, ding, ding- that’s you and those two phrases! I don’t know if that makes sense to you but whatever’s happening, I’m stuck in it.

All of the processing above made me think about you and what words/sayings/phrases get you going. Whether “get you going” means crying, feeling guilty, getting butterflies from anticipation, makes you excited or feeling like you’re all ears. Whatever it is, won’t you please – please – share it?

Share those special words and phrases to help pull me out of this never ending tunnel of

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Coming Friday, 9/22/17- Paddling two naughty boys.

“I’m so disappointed in you’s and I’m gonna blister your butt’s”. I need something fresh and new, something to grab hold of my brain and shake those hidden gems out of there. At the very least, something to make me say oh yeah, that’s a great one. I’m confident that you’re just the right person to help me!

I suppose I could just go with, “you deserve a good, sound, bare bottom spanking over my knee!”, emphasized by holding my hair brush <Insert evil grin here> That one’s reserved for my in person naughties, because let’s face it, that’s is 100% true of 100% of you that enter through Spanktopia’s door. Mwah, thanks in advance for your help.

Spanks and hugs,

Ms. Kimi

Domestic Discipline with Ms. Kimi

Hello Lovelies! Have you ever wondered what it might be like getting disciplined by me? Well this is, somewhat, how it might go…

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If you’ve been really naughty, I will have you strip. There is no reason you should be spanked with extra layers protecting your backside. I want you to feel each and every swat, smack and stroke. Don’t wad your clothes up in a ball either. You will fold those clothes nice and neat and place them somewhere they won’t get dirty. If you don’t know where to place them, ask.

If we are in public, I will not spank you in front of others. I may ask some of the people who saw you engage in this negative behavior to come over and observe your punishment in private. Again, you will be asked to strip, which may add to your embarrassment and that is for the best.

It doesn’t matter if you’re taller or bigger than me, I will grab you by the ear and maneuver you where I want you. If you resist, I will keep adding additional swats or strokes to your punishment. I may decide upon difficult positions for you to hold, as well. And hold them you must! Your safety is my main concern.

benchI like it when you go and fetch the implements I’ve asked you to bring me. If you fight me on doing so, whine or hide the implements I’ve asked for, I will choose the most wicked, butt blistering thing that I own. Heavy, stingy, deep bruising, rubber strap sound like fun? I didn’t think so!  I can guarantee you will not do something like that the next time you need a spanking. It’s all a learning process, see?


Kicking, fighting and the like will only get you a harder punishment. Again, safety is a must and you can’t be spanked in a safe manner while you are thrashing around. I will scissor-lock your legs in mine and you’d best believe that they are strong. Wriggle, wiggle and try to slide away and they just get tighter. I really don’t see what all the fuss is about. You need to think about your choices and how they were wrong.  Make a different choice the next time, but don’t you dare try to make excuses for your bad behavior right now.

I enjoy a little bratting, sassiness and/or backtalk. It feeds me the fuel that I need to teach you about the consequences for your actions. We can go with this until you wear yourself out. However, you should be very, very careful of what you say to me. One little obscenity will get your mouth washed out with soap, squeaky clean. There will be no rinsing, either. You will keep that bar of soap in your mouth until I am finished disciplining you. If you make any teeth marks in the soap, you’ll be caned five times however many teeth marks there are, when I’ve finished with your spanking.

What’s that, dear? Please stop? I will stop when I’m good and ready. I must be convinced that you have learned your lesson and I don’t think you have. I chose this position, implement and setting specifically for you, so you will learn a long, hard, lesson. If you keep asking me to stop, I will need to begin again and I mean it.

Yes, I know it hurts. It’s supposed to hurt! This way you will, hopefully, understand that I meant it when I said there are consequences for your actions. Crying isn’t going to make me smack your little tush any lighter. Use your pain to really dig deeper into your mind. Visualize the situation you’re being punished for.

Why did you do it?

What would you do differently?

What would you change the next time?

How does it feel when you make the correct decision that time?

That’s good! I hope that you will learn from this experience.

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Now, dry your eyes. You’re sorry for doing that? You learned a lesson and won’t do it again? I’m glad to hear it! I hope you understand that I’m only doing this for your own good. If you forget again, it will be the same punishment and then some. It will be harsher, longer and more uncomfortable for you, so you should try very hard not to repeat your actions.


After this it could go one of three ways.

  1. I have a coin here, please take it and yourself over to the corner. You will hold the coin in place with your nose for ten minutes while you stand on your toes. If the coin drops to the floor, your corner time will begin again. If your heels touch the floor, your corner time begins again. It does not matter if you’ve held yourself in place for nine minutes and fifty-eight seconds, if either of those things happen, your corner time begins again. If you rub your bottom, at any point during your corner time, your time begins again. Do I make myself clear? Good, now go and get into position. Yes, the clock is loud and you will hear every. single. second.
  2. Do you see that wooden chair there? Yes, the one with the thumbtacks on the seat. I want you to go and sit on the that chair for fifteen minutes. You will sit in that chair with your feet flat on the floor and your arms raised and bent behind your head. You will not move. If you move, your time on the chair begins again. It hurts to sit? I know. That’s so you can remember what happens when you make bad decisions. I need you to learn something from this whole experience.
  3. You said some very naughty things! I’m sure your jaw is tired from holding that bar of soap all this time. Let’s take it out and see if there are any teeth marks in it. Oh, I’m sorry. You left several teeth marks in this soap and I told you not to do that, didn’t I? I bet you’re very disappointed in yourself today. Alright, there are two, very deep teeth marks here. You are going to receive ten strokes of the cane. I will determine how hard these strokes will be based on how well you hold your position, how well you hold your tongue and how much I think you can take. I may change to a heavier, thicker cane for a deeper effect or a lighter, narrower cane for some sting. If you move from your position while I am caning you, I will start over. Do you understand?

Spanks and hugs,

Ms. Kimi

Dirty butt? Clean. It. Up.

Hello Lovelies! How’s your summer going? Mine has been spanktastic so far. I meant to post this last week but life got in the way and I’m posting it now. I haven’t scheduled all of my summer travel yet, so be sure to schedule your session because I have a lot of travel planned and would hate to miss you.

You can see all of our clips at http://www.clips4sale.com/92919

Hygiene. Yes, we are going to discuss personal hygiene. I have heard some horror stories from other professional’s out there but had yet to experience it myself until recently. I won’t say where but experience it I did, unfortunately. Please do not email me asking if it was you, because it wasn’t. Trust me on this.

We are all adults here and it really should go unsaid. Apparently, however, it needs to be brought to some folks attention. Wash your dirty butt! I’m not talking about normal body odor. Everyone has a smell that’s unique to them and that’s perfectly normal. I’m also not speaking about medical conditions such as ABL, Accidental Bowel Leakage. (I do ask that you discuss medical issues with me prior to your session.) No, I’m talking about a stinky, dirty body and backside.

If you think that your uncleanliness is going to get you punished more, you’ve got another think coming. It’s going to get you a swift kick in your fanny, out my (and others) front door! Have some respect for yourself and the person you’re playing with. When you are going to play with someone, professional or not, you need to make sure you have taken care of yourself from head to toe.

It’s best if you come prepared to play. Prepared to play means you’ve:

A) Showered…RECENTLY!

B) Put on clean clothes and undergarments.

C) Brushed your teeth or, at the least, popped some gum or a mint.

See, that’s not so difficult. is it? Cologne, perfume, deodorant, scented lotions or powders are ALL bonuses, but not necessity. Being clean and presentable is.

Side note: If you feel the need to take a shower at Spanktopia, I’m happy to accommodate but know that the time it takes you is going to come out of your session time. It’s your money and if you feel it’s best spent showering, then by all means, please do so. I also, happily, provide wipes in my restroom here in case you feel the need for some freshening up before we get started.

Spanks and Hugs,

Ms. Kimi



Vacations are a scam…

BenchHello Lovelies! I hope this finds you doing very well. As we enter into the season of travel, I can’t help but reflect on every vacation I’ve taken. Most of us have such a limited amount of vacation time available to us and we try to cram in as much as we can possibly see, do and eat. Why?

I think about vacations as a child and being crammed into the car with all of our travel necessities to head down to the four corners (or some other touristy spot), a very visited spot in Colorado. You have the big build-up of, “what will it be like, I can’t wait to see it”, the long drive or flight with all of the security, being herded- similar to cattle- onto our planes, trains and buses. Then you arrive and it’s, “eh, now what do we do?” (Come to find out, the four corners monument is in the wrong spot, but that’s besides the point.) Most of the time, when you return home, you feel as though you need a vacation from your vacation. Don’t you?

What I am getting at is, life is short. You should make every day count and fill your twenty-four hours with things that matter to you. Don’t wait until you’ve banked seven vacation days to trek hundreds or thousands of miles to something that looks the same on the internet as it does in person. If you want to travel, great, enjoy! But make it count.

I know a couple who move from place to place every five years or so. They sell everything, find new jobs and really immerse themselves in the culture of that locale. The sights to see, the food, the events happening around town, meeting new people. While this isn’t practical for everyone, think about what’s practical for you. What can you do to make yourself happier on a day-to-day basis? 5


The definition of Hedonism is ‘the pursuit of pleasure; sensual self-indulgence. The theory that pleasure (in the sense of the satisfaction of desires) is the highest good and proper aim of human life.’ Why are you denying yourself that? What is so wrong about enjoying your life as long as you take care of your responsibilities first? (I’m not talking drugs or alcohol here!)

If your desire comes in the form of seeing a Disciplinarian to feel the sensations; the slap of a warm hand on your cool bottom, the sting of a paddle, blistering heat across your backside, the rush of endorphin’s releasing your stress or guilt; then stop “thinking about it” and DO. IT. Because “someday” may never arrive.

You work hard to earn those measly seven days. Spend them doing something that matters, something that could profoundly change your life, fulfilling a hidden desire you’ve had since childhood. Or, my approach is to, incorporate those desires into your everyday life and you won’t need a vacation. Those vacation days will just be a bonus to an already satisfying life. You could use them to visit a national spanking party, spend them with friends and loved ones, relax at home or see your local Disciplinarian, again. =)

Hugs & Spanks,

Ms. Kimi


Whoopin’ Wednesday

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Classy Kay gets a Slipper Spanking. Clip available here.

Hello my lovelies. How’s your week going? We’ve all made it through half the week to Whoopin’ Wednesday. What are your plans to get your spank on this weekend?

I’m counting down the days until my Omaha trip. Eight days until arrival and I’m looking forward to readjusting some attitudes while I’m there. I extended the trip, so I will be arriving Thursday evening and leaving Sunday afternoon. It’s cutting it close, but if you’d like an Omaha session send me a contact form ASAP. I have to receive your deposit before I leave on the 10th of March or no session. I am currently in a commercial space, no mail is delivered here on weekends because the building is locked. You MUST mail your deposit soon and possibly, 2-day priority to get it here in time. I’m traveling with a variety of implements, leather and wood, we should have a wonderful time.

Speaking of my space, I’m happy to announce that the SpanketySpank offices will be moving in March. TSP (The Spanking Party) will be relocating as well. I’ve purchased a new space that is 900 square feet. This will be used for sessions and parties. I can’t wait! We can have sessions on the couch, over a chair, over a spanking bench, sessions for littles in the bathtub, sessions for sissies to dress-up, sessions in the kitchen – you get the picture- so no more in-town hotel sessions. Unless, of course, you like hotel sessions. I will still be traveling but I will also be able to do in-calls. Yay!

THANK YOU to all the sweet, thoughtful people who have sent items off of my wish list lately. That is so incredibly nice of you! It is always such a rush to get a surprise in the mail. I know email is instant but I sure miss the days of getting good, old-fashioned, snail mail. MikeD in Connecticut sent me this

(I promise to use it on you only, Mike.)

Byron in Traverse City, MI sent me this and I can’t wait to use it. 

I think it looks deceptively pretty, but will pack one heck of a sting.

I want you to tell me about YOUR favorite paddle and why it’s your favorite in the comments, please.

Spanks and hugs,

Ms. Kimi

Spanked for wetting your pants?

Have you ever been spanked for wetting your pants? Tell me about it in the comments section. I want to hear your story.


Little Kay was asked at school if she needed to use the restroom but she was too busy playing and said, “No.” Needless to say she had an accident. When she got home, she hid the wet clothes and note from the playground monitor in her backpack under the sink. Watch what happens to her here Wet Little Kay

New clips4sale store

Hello, my lovelies!

This has been an incredibly busy week! How has your week been? I would like to let you know that SpanketySpank.com has finally gotten our Clips4Sale store Titled, “Ms. Kimi Spanks”, up and running and you can look forward to many more clips in the future. We have titles that include:

Birthday Party Belting – Snapshot_0

Mouth Soaping Little Kay


Wet Bottom Whoopin’


Table Manners


and more. I really hope you will all go and check it out!

If you have any ideas that you’d like us to shoot for you please message Ms. Kimi on SpanketySpank.com via the contact form. As always, to schedule your private, personalized session, send me a contact form.

Behave yourself,

Ms. Kimi