Have a spanking favorite?

Hello Lovelies,

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I hope you are enjoying warmer weather and the hints of summer. Last week, I asked how you prepare for a spanking and this week, I’ve been thinking of the session itself. There are so many pieces that make up a spanking, aren’t there? It makes me wonder, do you have a favorite part of a spanking?

Anticipation (a biggie for both the Disciplinarian and yourself.) I can’t tell you how many of you have been thoughtful enough to try and bring that in to play for me. I get emails counting down the days, I get questions that inspire my imagination to kick in to high gear, I get stories- and the list goes on. Is the anticipation your favorite part? How important is it to you? You can read a former blog post I wrote about anticipation here.


Choosing your undergarments? I know this is a piece of the bigger picture for many of you and others don’t give it a second thought. I have seen men and women in their sexiest lingerie, boys who want to be taken back to their youth who choose “tightie whities”, naughty’s who want to go for the shock factor and wear nothing at all under their clothes. How important is choosing what you’ll wear, or not wear, to your session?

The disrobing can be an exciting and/or humiliating experience. Who wants “Mom” or “Auntie” to see them naked, exposed and SO vulnerable? It can be quite a thrill to be complimented on your selection. You chose a luxurious pair of silky, lacy, barely there Vicky Secrets, you wonder if you’ll be praised for this brazen choice or chastised for dressing inappropriately?

Blistering my naughty nephew (4)How about the foreboding dread that seems to consume you, as you assume the position, and your fear about what is to come? Wondering if the first swat will be over your underpants or on the bare? What implements will be used, etc.?

Does the position matter to you? Being taken over the knee can help catapult you into your childhood but so can being bent over a desk in a classroom setting. Any favorite positions?

No funny business 3The scolding, will it create shame or will you go in the complete opposite direction and feel justified in what you’ve done? Will it make you submissive and remorseful or illicit anger and bring out your defiance? Will you fess up or continue to lie and deny? Do you want the scolding to continue throughout your spanking or does it serve its purpose just before the first smack lands? Does it help you accept responsibility for what you’ve done? Is the scolding your most favorite part of a scene?

I will continue this discussion next week and look forward to your comments!

Spanks and hugs,

Ms. Kimi

P.S. I’m excited!! I just recorded a NEW NiteFlirt call- “Panty sniffing snoop.” I’m kind of disappointed they made me change my original title, “Spanking my panty sniffing stepson” but I have to follow their rules. Same content, different title. This call is available to listen to 24/7 and you can view the listing here- Ms. Kimi’s NiteFlirt or you can call and listen to it, directly, here- 1-800-TO-FLIRT Extension 1131-3591. It’s a 12 minute call. (You can ALWAYS send a contact form to book a private, one-on-one, live call with me.) I’ll be waiting…

When the punishment’s over…

Hello Lovelies

I was in Portland again last weekend for KinkFest and had a really lovely time. I sessioned and worked at the vendor fair, the weather was gorgeous. I met so many wonderful people and you were all very kind, having many complimentary things to say about my work. Thank you!!

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After my session, I was thinking about how things go after the punishment has ended. I wonder what most of you do after you’ve been spanked. Do you relax and stretch out on the bed, relishing in the delicious heat that’s spread across your backside? Delight in the sting that the Arnica gel imparts to your swollen and tender bottom? Welcome some cool and soothing lotion gently caressed into your burning hot buns? Or, are you a purist and want to feel everything without anything to relieve it?

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Do you put away the implements that have just been used on your bottom and wish you’d made better choices? Put away the implements that were used to adjust your attitude and wish you had more coming? Perhaps, you aren’t allowed to touch the tools your Disciplinarian uses to teach you a lesson? How does it go? Does your punishment end after the spanking or has it only just begun?

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I’m sure there are many different answers, depending on various factors like the type of spanking that was administered.  Each of my sessions end differently, but I’m curious how it goes for you.

Spanks and hugs,

     Ms. Kimi



Domestic Discipline with Ms. Kimi

Hello Lovelies! Have you ever wondered what it might be like getting disciplined by me? Well this is, somewhat, how it might go…

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If you’ve been really naughty, I will have you strip. There is no reason you should be spanked with extra layers protecting your backside. I want you to feel each and every swat, smack and stroke. Don’t wad your clothes up in a ball either. You will fold those clothes nice and neat and place them somewhere they won’t get dirty. If you don’t know where to place them, ask.

If we are in public, I will not spank you in front of others. I may ask some of the people who saw you engage in this negative behavior to come over and observe your punishment in private. Again, you will be asked to strip, which may add to your embarrassment and that is for the best.

It doesn’t matter if you’re taller or bigger than me, I will grab you by the ear and maneuver you where I want you. If you resist, I will keep adding additional swats or strokes to your punishment. I may decide upon difficult positions for you to hold, as well. And hold them you must! Your safety is my main concern.

benchI like it when you go and fetch the implements I’ve asked you to bring me. If you fight me on doing so, whine or hide the implements I’ve asked for, I will choose the most wicked, butt blistering thing that I own. Heavy, stingy, deep bruising, rubber strap sound like fun? I didn’t think so!  I can guarantee you will not do something like that the next time you need a spanking. It’s all a learning process, see?


Kicking, fighting and the like will only get you a harder punishment. Again, safety is a must and you can’t be spanked in a safe manner while you are thrashing around. I will scissor-lock your legs in mine and you’d best believe that they are strong. Wriggle, wiggle and try to slide away and they just get tighter. I really don’t see what all the fuss is about. You need to think about your choices and how they were wrong.  Make a different choice the next time, but don’t you dare try to make excuses for your bad behavior right now.

I enjoy a little bratting, sassiness and/or backtalk. It feeds me the fuel that I need to teach you about the consequences for your actions. We can go with this until you wear yourself out. However, you should be very, very careful of what you say to me. One little obscenity will get your mouth washed out with soap, squeaky clean. There will be no rinsing, either. You will keep that bar of soap in your mouth until I am finished disciplining you. If you make any teeth marks in the soap, you’ll be caned five times however many teeth marks there are, when I’ve finished with your spanking.

What’s that, dear? Please stop? I will stop when I’m good and ready. I must be convinced that you have learned your lesson and I don’t think you have. I chose this position, implement and setting specifically for you, so you will learn a long, hard, lesson. If you keep asking me to stop, I will need to begin again and I mean it.

Yes, I know it hurts. It’s supposed to hurt! This way you will, hopefully, understand that I meant it when I said there are consequences for your actions. Crying isn’t going to make me smack your little tush any lighter. Use your pain to really dig deeper into your mind. Visualize the situation you’re being punished for.

Why did you do it?

What would you do differently?

What would you change the next time?

How does it feel when you make the correct decision that time?

That’s good! I hope that you will learn from this experience.

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Now, dry your eyes. You’re sorry for doing that? You learned a lesson and won’t do it again? I’m glad to hear it! I hope you understand that I’m only doing this for your own good. If you forget again, it will be the same punishment and then some. It will be harsher, longer and more uncomfortable for you, so you should try very hard not to repeat your actions.


After this it could go one of three ways.

  1. I have a coin here, please take it and yourself over to the corner. You will hold the coin in place with your nose for ten minutes while you stand on your toes. If the coin drops to the floor, your corner time will begin again. If your heels touch the floor, your corner time begins again. It does not matter if you’ve held yourself in place for nine minutes and fifty-eight seconds, if either of those things happen, your corner time begins again. If you rub your bottom, at any point during your corner time, your time begins again. Do I make myself clear? Good, now go and get into position. Yes, the clock is loud and you will hear every. single. second.
  2. Do you see that wooden chair there? Yes, the one with the thumbtacks on the seat. I want you to go and sit on the that chair for fifteen minutes. You will sit in that chair with your feet flat on the floor and your arms raised and bent behind your head. You will not move. If you move, your time on the chair begins again. It hurts to sit? I know. That’s so you can remember what happens when you make bad decisions. I need you to learn something from this whole experience.
  3. You said some very naughty things! I’m sure your jaw is tired from holding that bar of soap all this time. Let’s take it out and see if there are any teeth marks in it. Oh, I’m sorry. You left several teeth marks in this soap and I told you not to do that, didn’t I? I bet you’re very disappointed in yourself today. Alright, there are two, very deep teeth marks here. You are going to receive ten strokes of the cane. I will determine how hard these strokes will be based on how well you hold your position, how well you hold your tongue and how much I think you can take. I may change to a heavier, thicker cane for a deeper effect or a lighter, narrower cane for some sting. If you move from your position while I am caning you, I will start over. Do you understand?

Spanks and hugs,

Ms. Kimi

Happy Spanking New Year!


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Hello Lovelies! Can you believe another year nearly gone? I was reflecting on everything that’s happened in 2016 and while it was a spanktastic year, I’m welcoming 2017 with open arms and I hope you are, as well. Someone once said to me that a new year is like a blank canvas, and the brush is in your hands. It is your chance to paint a beautiful piece of art for yourself. I took that to heart and plan to paint my most epic piece of art in 2017- how about you?

Falling in line with that sentiment, I want you to reflect on what your needs are, how you’ve changed, what you want to change and the steps you must take to get there. Have you been *hoping* that you’ll find that special spanking relationship? Wishing you were on the receiving end? Looking for the perfect Mommy to cuddle, feed and change you? Do you have regrets about missed opportunities or goals? It’s time to stop hoping, wishing, regretting and make things happen for yourself! You can create the life you want to live. Don’t get stuck in a rut. Go out and find what you need, what you crave and what makes you happy. It doesn’t have to be your forever, just your right now.

I can guide you through as your life coach, I can keep you in line as your Disciplinarian, I can smother you with the maternal love that you so desperately need as your Mommy, I can cheer for you as your friend, but I can’t do ANY of that until you decide to take the steps to make your life how you want it. I’ll be here waiting and wondering what that looks like for you. Send me a contact form so we can get started ASAP and make this YOUR best new year yet! If you don’t, you know right where I’ll send you when I see you next time!


Spanks and hugs,

Ms. Kimi