I hope you are enjoying warmer weather and the hints of summer. Last week, I asked how you prepare for a spanking and this week, I’ve been thinking of the session itself. There are so many pieces that make up a spanking, aren’t there? It makes me wonder, do you have a favorite part of a spanking?
Anticipation (a biggie for both the Disciplinarian and yourself.) I can’t tell you how many of you have been thoughtful enough to try and bring that in to play for me. I get emails counting down the days, I get questions that inspire my imagination to kick in to high gear, I get stories- and the list goes on. Is the anticipation your favorite part? How important is it to you? You can read a former blog post I wrote about anticipation here.
Choosing your undergarments? I know this is a piece of the bigger picture for many of you and others don’t give it a second thought. I have seen men and women in their sexiest lingerie, boys who want to be taken back to their youth who choose “tightie whities”, naughty’s who want to go for the shock factor and wear nothing at all under their clothes. How important is choosing what you’ll wear, or not wear, to your session?
The disrobing can be an exciting and/or humiliating experience. Who wants “Mom” or “Auntie” to see them naked, exposed and SO vulnerable? It can be quite a thrill to be complimented on your selection. You chose a luxurious pair of silky, lacy, barely there Vicky Secrets, you wonder if you’ll be praised for this brazen choice or chastised for dressing inappropriately?
How about the foreboding dread that seems to consume you, as you assume the position, and your fear about what is to come? Wondering if the first swat will be over your underpants or on the bare? What implements will be used, etc.?
Does the position matter to you? Being taken over the knee can help catapult you into your childhood but so can being bent over a desk in a classroom setting. Any favorite positions?
The scolding, will it create shame or will you go in the complete opposite direction and feel justified in what you’ve done? Will it make you submissive and remorseful or illicit anger and bring out your defiance? Will you fess up or continue to lie and deny? Do you want the scolding to continue throughout your spanking or does it serve its purpose just before the first smack lands? Does it help you accept responsibility for what you’ve done? Is the scolding your most favorite part of a scene?
I will continue this discussion next week and look forward to your comments!
Spanks and hugs,
P.S. I’m excited!! I just recorded a NEW NiteFlirt call- “Panty sniffing snoop.” I’m kind of disappointed they made me change my original title, “Spanking my panty sniffing stepson” but I have to follow their rules. Same content, different title. This call is available to listen to 24/7 and you can view the listing here- Ms. Kimi’s NiteFlirt or you can call and listen to it, directly, here- 1-800-TO-FLIRT Extension 1131-3591. It’s a 12 minute call. (You can ALWAYS send a contact form to book a private, one-on-one, live call with me.) I’ll be waiting…