Consequences and punishments

Hello Lovelies,

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Recently, someone asked me, “If I did X, how would you punish me?” That got me thinking about setting clear rules and the punishments if those limits were broken or pushed. It made me really mull the consequences I’ve given in the past and if they were fitting to the situation.

What I ultimately determined is that my rules are my rules and while I may become more creative with some punishments, your consequences will fit your crime. It doesn’t matter who you are or how often I see you, you will do as I’ve asked of you or you will pay a price- assuming that you’re consenting to this arrangement, of course.


Cursing, backtalk, sticking your tongue out, spitting, etc. will all receive a mouthsoaping. You’ll get a warning and should you continue to bend or break my rules, you’ll be marched to the nearest sink to wash scrub your naughty little mouth out with a good old bar of Ivory. No sink handy? I’m sure we can find some hot sauce or other foul tasting substance. I’ve heard dirt is quite unpleasant with it’s gritty consistency and if you’re going to act the part, Mr. or Mrs. Dirty mouth, you may as well look the part, too.


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Cursing, backtalk, sticking your tongue out, spitting, etc. will all receive a mouthsoaping. You’ll get a warning and should you continue to bend or break my rules, you’ll be marched to the nearest sink to wash scrub your naughty little mouth out with a good old bar of Ivory. No sink handy? I’m sure we can find some hot sauce or other foul tasting substance. I’ve heard dirt is quite unpleasant with it’s gritty consistency and if you’re going to act the part, Mr. or Mrs. Dirty mouth, you may as well look the part, too.

If you choose to, yet again, cross the lines I’ve drawn in the sand, it’s going to get even worse. Perhaps, instead of just a mouthwashing, you’ll have to hold that soap in your mouth for the entirety of your spanking. Maybe you’ll be made to bite the soap and not be allowed to rinse your mouth. Or, you might be told not to leave a single mark in the bar of soap, because teeth marks will earn you severe consequences. Forceful mouthsoaping, where I must take matters into my own hands and hold your nose to get you to open your mouth, will result in swollen lips, gagging and you may get your face slapped. Don’t. Push. Me.

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The spanking: We’ve discussed many of the actions that warrant corporal punishment in earlier posts, so I’m not going to list them here. The severity of your actions will warrant how I’m going to handle you and the situation. Sometimes you haven’t done enough to earn yourself a spanking with no warm-up. Other times, you might deserve a hairbrush to your cold fanny so you can have a burning hot, attention grabbing and behavior changing trip over my knee. Occasionally, you’ll be paddled so hard I know you will have to bend over the furniture with something to grip on to or you will wriggle yourself into more trouble.

For those of you that refuse to hold still, I’m going to give you a hard position to hold. Palms flat, on your knees, face to the floor, don’t even think of using your elbows. If you’re concentrating on doing what you’ve been told to do, you’re less likely to squirm around. I know you’re in pain but it’s imperative that you stay where you’re told for your own safety. If holding yourself in place, as I’ve told you to, doesn’t keep you from writhing around I’m going to grab you by the waist, bend you over and hold you myself.

You should really be able to control yourself enough to take your punishment without being strapped down but if I have to tie you down, I will. This is going to result in a very, very sore bottom for you because you’re already in trouble and then I have to expend more energy to keep you safe for your blistering. If it comes to this, you’d better………….PRAY!

I’d love to hear about some of your memorable consequences and punishments, leave them in the comments section. I read them all, though I may not respond.

Have a spanktacular week,

Ms. Kimi


Schoolgirl spankings: Dress code violations coming Friday 9/1/17



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Hello Lovelies,

I often think back to my childhood and go over the naughty things I did to get myself into trouble. I think about the wicked things I didn’t get caught doing, as well as the things that I did get caught for and didn’t care for the consequence (or lack thereof) I received. I feel guilty over some, shameful about others, but many were regular childhood mistakes that you learn and grow from. Do you ever look back on your past transgressions or disobedience? Do you think of alternate punishment’s you could/should have received?

We had an alley behind our house that, for years, was just dirt. One summer, they paved the alley and installed a large rectangular drain but didn’t put the metal grate on it, instead laying a board down over it. My friend from next door and I would climb down the ladder and play house and other things in there. I got the idea to sneak a couple of my mom’s cigarettes and matches and the neighbor and I met in the drain. We choked and coughed our way through the cigarettes but then began playing with the matches. I don’t know how, but I singed my eyelashes and eyebrow off of one eye.

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Everything would have been fine but the neighbor’s didn’t smoke and could smell the smoke on her right away. Not long after I got home, here came her Dad who informed my Mom that we had been smoking cigarettes. My eyelashes and eyebrow didn’t help corroborate my denial. I told a huge lie, saying Maggie had forced me to play with the matches, that she pushed one toward my eye saying if I didn’t do what she wanted, she would stick the match in my eye.

My Mom said I wasn’t allowed to play with Maggie again but I had no spankings, groundings or really any consequences at all for smoking the cigarettes.  She, on the other hand, got grounded and spanked. Our bedroom windows faced each others and her Father didn’t bother to close the curtains before he beat her butt. It looked like a bad one too, she cried a lot and every time we caught eye contact after that she would flip me off. Sorry, Maggie!

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Her Dad was an Attorney and Maggie was always threatening to sue me for different things. Maybe that spanking was Karma for all the fear I lived in from her constant threats, maybe not.

All I know is I have carried that around in my mind for the last 32 years and have always felt a little guilty that Maggie had to take a spanking that was meant for me. I know that I would have handled it completely different than how my Mother did but we can talk about consequences next week. One of the best parts of being a Disciplinarian, is helping you relive your transgressions and punishing you for them so you can let some of that guilt go. Role-playing is fun, too! Book an in-person session on If you’re in the US, I can travel to you, I travel monthly, or you can come and visit me in Colorado.

Please share some of your misdeeds in the comments. I read them all, though I may not respond.

Have a spanktabulous week and BE GOOD,

                     Ms. Kimi

Have a spanking favorite?

Hello Lovelies,

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I hope you are enjoying warmer weather and the hints of summer. Last week, I asked how you prepare for a spanking and this week, I’ve been thinking of the session itself. There are so many pieces that make up a spanking, aren’t there? It makes me wonder, do you have a favorite part of a spanking?

Anticipation (a biggie for both the Disciplinarian and yourself.) I can’t tell you how many of you have been thoughtful enough to try and bring that in to play for me. I get emails counting down the days, I get questions that inspire my imagination to kick in to high gear, I get stories- and the list goes on. Is the anticipation your favorite part? How important is it to you? You can read a former blog post I wrote about anticipation here.


Choosing your undergarments? I know this is a piece of the bigger picture for many of you and others don’t give it a second thought. I have seen men and women in their sexiest lingerie, boys who want to be taken back to their youth who choose “tightie whities”, naughty’s who want to go for the shock factor and wear nothing at all under their clothes. How important is choosing what you’ll wear, or not wear, to your session?

The disrobing can be an exciting and/or humiliating experience. Who wants “Mom” or “Auntie” to see them naked, exposed and SO vulnerable? It can be quite a thrill to be complimented on your selection. You chose a luxurious pair of silky, lacy, barely there Vicky Secrets, you wonder if you’ll be praised for this brazen choice or chastised for dressing inappropriately?

Blistering my naughty nephew (4)How about the foreboding dread that seems to consume you, as you assume the position, and your fear about what is to come? Wondering if the first swat will be over your underpants or on the bare? What implements will be used, etc.?

Does the position matter to you? Being taken over the knee can help catapult you into your childhood but so can being bent over a desk in a classroom setting. Any favorite positions?

No funny business 3The scolding, will it create shame or will you go in the complete opposite direction and feel justified in what you’ve done? Will it make you submissive and remorseful or illicit anger and bring out your defiance? Will you fess up or continue to lie and deny? Do you want the scolding to continue throughout your spanking or does it serve its purpose just before the first smack lands? Does it help you accept responsibility for what you’ve done? Is the scolding your most favorite part of a scene?

I will continue this discussion next week and look forward to your comments!

Spanks and hugs,

Ms. Kimi

P.S. I’m excited!! I just recorded a NEW NiteFlirt call- “Panty sniffing snoop.” I’m kind of disappointed they made me change my original title, “Spanking my panty sniffing stepson” but I have to follow their rules. Same content, different title. This call is available to listen to 24/7 and you can view the listing here- Ms. Kimi’s NiteFlirt or you can call and listen to it, directly, here- 1-800-TO-FLIRT Extension 1131-3591. It’s a 12 minute call. (You can ALWAYS send a contact form to book a private, one-on-one, live call with me.) I’ll be waiting…

When the punishment’s over…

Hello Lovelies

I was in Portland again last weekend for KinkFest and had a really lovely time. I sessioned and worked at the vendor fair, the weather was gorgeous. I met so many wonderful people and you were all very kind, having many complimentary things to say about my work. Thank you!!

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After my session, I was thinking about how things go after the punishment has ended. I wonder what most of you do after you’ve been spanked. Do you relax and stretch out on the bed, relishing in the delicious heat that’s spread across your backside? Delight in the sting that the Arnica gel imparts to your swollen and tender bottom? Welcome some cool and soothing lotion gently caressed into your burning hot buns? Or, are you a purist and want to feel everything without anything to relieve it?

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Do you put away the implements that have just been used on your bottom and wish you’d made better choices? Put away the implements that were used to adjust your attitude and wish you had more coming? Perhaps, you aren’t allowed to touch the tools your Disciplinarian uses to teach you a lesson? How does it go? Does your punishment end after the spanking or has it only just begun?

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I’m sure there are many different answers, depending on various factors like the type of spanking that was administered.  Each of my sessions end differently, but I’m curious how it goes for you.

Spanks and hugs,

     Ms. Kimi




Hello Lovelies! How have you been? I’ve missed chatting with you on the blog but I haven’t had a lot of time to update it lately. The website photos were updated today so you might want to go and check it out. After the last post, I started writing that story I mentioned but I felt like it was a bit too taboo to post so I decided against it.

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This weeks NEW CLIP!  

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I will be at EXXXOTICA Denver 3/31-4/2/17 in the Clips4Sale booth, times have yet to be determined. If you’re going, stop by and say hi or you can book a session while you’re in Denver. I will be heading back to Portland for KINKFEST 2017 April 14th & 15th and will be in the Sensual Paddles booth. I have VERY limited session times available for this trip so book NOW! I’m debating whether or not I will go to Lone Star Spanking Party in May. Are any of you going?

That’s all for now. Have a spanktastic weekend,

Ms. Kimi



The Teacher gets spanked

Hello Lovelies. How have you been? It’s been busier than usual around here and I like it! Now that Backpage has shut down the adult section, apparently, some of you are scouring the internet in search of what you need and SpanketySpank has brought you to me. Good!

I wanted to remind you that will still honor a 10% discount to readers as long as they enter coupon code: spanketyspank at checkout.  

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I had a strange situation come about. A former Teacher of mine contacted me for a session. Whether this Teacher was aware I was one of his students before or not, I’m unsure, but when he met me he did note that I looked familiar. I didn’t say a word! He had given me a fake name and I wasn’t about to point out that I knew his actual name. I respect privacy, although I do enjoy learning about you and may ask questions, it’s up to you what you share with me.

I can remember this Teacher being a bit different from others. He was quite young back then. He was very lax with us and he would sit on a desk at the front of the room. He sat caddy-corner and appeared, at least to me, to rub himself (balls) on the edge of that desk. I saw him looking at some of the girls feet from time to time when they would wear sandals. I’m fairly sure that I noted a bulge in his pants on more than one occasion.

The Teacher wanted to play school (tee hee!) and I was his student (ironic), disciplining him for being a naughty Professor who I caught peeking at the young women’s panties when they wore dresses. I was upset because he didn’t peek at my panties and threatened to turn him in to the Principal if he did not do as I said.

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He was made to strip but he didn’t fold his clothes neatly, shame on him! I marked that down in a notebook. He wanted me to humiliate him and shame him about his body, so I did. I began circling him and making note of his saggy bottom, beer belly and overtly erect, yet small, penis. I had him step into some frilly, pink satin and lace panties, then I began his punishment.

He was bent over the desk, not my lap, given a very thorough warm-up with my hand and a small paddle. I kept track of all his minor transgressions in my notebook. If he didn’t say, “Thank you, Ms. Kimi”, or if he took too long to answer a question, not quick enough to move when told- it was all jotted down. After a rather intense and lengthy paddling, I tallied all of his violation’s up. He had 29 infractions, therefore, he received 29 slow and grueling thrashes with my cane on his already tender and sore bottom. This poor man’s backside was torn up, just the way he’d wanted.

Not all sessions result in bruising. You can leave with a red, hot, sore bottom. I can’t guarantee you won’t bruise but I can do my very best to keep bruises away and I will always respect your limits. To this day, I have never sent someone home with bruises if they asked me not to. I make a note here about bruising because I want you to understand that YOUR session is custom tailored to you and YOUR needs. Book your session now. Send Ms. Kimi a contact form to get the ball rolling.

Note: I will be in Portland in March- book your session now by sending a contact form.

Spanks and hugs,

Ms. Kimi

Domestic Discipline with Ms. Kimi

Hello Lovelies! Have you ever wondered what it might be like getting disciplined by me? Well this is, somewhat, how it might go…

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If you’ve been really naughty, I will have you strip. There is no reason you should be spanked with extra layers protecting your backside. I want you to feel each and every swat, smack and stroke. Don’t wad your clothes up in a ball either. You will fold those clothes nice and neat and place them somewhere they won’t get dirty. If you don’t know where to place them, ask.

If we are in public, I will not spank you in front of others. I may ask some of the people who saw you engage in this negative behavior to come over and observe your punishment in private. Again, you will be asked to strip, which may add to your embarrassment and that is for the best.

It doesn’t matter if you’re taller or bigger than me, I will grab you by the ear and maneuver you where I want you. If you resist, I will keep adding additional swats or strokes to your punishment. I may decide upon difficult positions for you to hold, as well. And hold them you must! Your safety is my main concern.

benchI like it when you go and fetch the implements I’ve asked you to bring me. If you fight me on doing so, whine or hide the implements I’ve asked for, I will choose the most wicked, butt blistering thing that I own. Heavy, stingy, deep bruising, rubber strap sound like fun? I didn’t think so!  I can guarantee you will not do something like that the next time you need a spanking. It’s all a learning process, see?


Kicking, fighting and the like will only get you a harder punishment. Again, safety is a must and you can’t be spanked in a safe manner while you are thrashing around. I will scissor-lock your legs in mine and you’d best believe that they are strong. Wriggle, wiggle and try to slide away and they just get tighter. I really don’t see what all the fuss is about. You need to think about your choices and how they were wrong.  Make a different choice the next time, but don’t you dare try to make excuses for your bad behavior right now.

I enjoy a little bratting, sassiness and/or backtalk. It feeds me the fuel that I need to teach you about the consequences for your actions. We can go with this until you wear yourself out. However, you should be very, very careful of what you say to me. One little obscenity will get your mouth washed out with soap, squeaky clean. There will be no rinsing, either. You will keep that bar of soap in your mouth until I am finished disciplining you. If you make any teeth marks in the soap, you’ll be caned five times however many teeth marks there are, when I’ve finished with your spanking.

What’s that, dear? Please stop? I will stop when I’m good and ready. I must be convinced that you have learned your lesson and I don’t think you have. I chose this position, implement and setting specifically for you, so you will learn a long, hard, lesson. If you keep asking me to stop, I will need to begin again and I mean it.

Yes, I know it hurts. It’s supposed to hurt! This way you will, hopefully, understand that I meant it when I said there are consequences for your actions. Crying isn’t going to make me smack your little tush any lighter. Use your pain to really dig deeper into your mind. Visualize the situation you’re being punished for.

Why did you do it?

What would you do differently?

What would you change the next time?

How does it feel when you make the correct decision that time?

That’s good! I hope that you will learn from this experience.

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Now, dry your eyes. You’re sorry for doing that? You learned a lesson and won’t do it again? I’m glad to hear it! I hope you understand that I’m only doing this for your own good. If you forget again, it will be the same punishment and then some. It will be harsher, longer and more uncomfortable for you, so you should try very hard not to repeat your actions.


After this it could go one of three ways.

  1. I have a coin here, please take it and yourself over to the corner. You will hold the coin in place with your nose for ten minutes while you stand on your toes. If the coin drops to the floor, your corner time will begin again. If your heels touch the floor, your corner time begins again. It does not matter if you’ve held yourself in place for nine minutes and fifty-eight seconds, if either of those things happen, your corner time begins again. If you rub your bottom, at any point during your corner time, your time begins again. Do I make myself clear? Good, now go and get into position. Yes, the clock is loud and you will hear every. single. second.
  2. Do you see that wooden chair there? Yes, the one with the thumbtacks on the seat. I want you to go and sit on the that chair for fifteen minutes. You will sit in that chair with your feet flat on the floor and your arms raised and bent behind your head. You will not move. If you move, your time on the chair begins again. It hurts to sit? I know. That’s so you can remember what happens when you make bad decisions. I need you to learn something from this whole experience.
  3. You said some very naughty things! I’m sure your jaw is tired from holding that bar of soap all this time. Let’s take it out and see if there are any teeth marks in it. Oh, I’m sorry. You left several teeth marks in this soap and I told you not to do that, didn’t I? I bet you’re very disappointed in yourself today. Alright, there are two, very deep teeth marks here. You are going to receive ten strokes of the cane. I will determine how hard these strokes will be based on how well you hold your position, how well you hold your tongue and how much I think you can take. I may change to a heavier, thicker cane for a deeper effect or a lighter, narrower cane for some sting. If you move from your position while I am caning you, I will start over. Do you understand?

Spanks and hugs,

Ms. Kimi