Consequences and punishments

Hello Lovelies,

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Recently, someone asked me, “If I did X, how would you punish me?” That got me thinking about setting clear rules and the punishments if those limits were broken or pushed. It made me really mull the consequences I’ve given in the past and if they were fitting to the situation.

What I ultimately determined is that my rules are my rules and while I may become more creative with some punishments, your consequences will fit your crime. It doesn’t matter who you are or how often I see you, you will do as I’ve asked of you or you will pay a price- assuming that you’re consenting to this arrangement, of course.

 

Cursing, backtalk, sticking your tongue out, spitting, etc. will all receive a mouthsoaping. You’ll get a warning and should you continue to bend or break my rules, you’ll be marched to the nearest sink to wash scrub your naughty little mouth out with a good old bar of Ivory. No sink handy? I’m sure we can find some hot sauce or other foul tasting substance. I’ve heard dirt is quite unpleasant with it’s gritty consistency and if you’re going to act the part, Mr. or Mrs. Dirty mouth, you may as well look the part, too.

 

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Cursing, backtalk, sticking your tongue out, spitting, etc. will all receive a mouthsoaping. You’ll get a warning and should you continue to bend or break my rules, you’ll be marched to the nearest sink to wash scrub your naughty little mouth out with a good old bar of Ivory. No sink handy? I’m sure we can find some hot sauce or other foul tasting substance. I’ve heard dirt is quite unpleasant with it’s gritty consistency and if you’re going to act the part, Mr. or Mrs. Dirty mouth, you may as well look the part, too.

If you choose to, yet again, cross the lines I’ve drawn in the sand, it’s going to get even worse. Perhaps, instead of just a mouthwashing, you’ll have to hold that soap in your mouth for the entirety of your spanking. Maybe you’ll be made to bite the soap and not be allowed to rinse your mouth. Or, you might be told not to leave a single mark in the bar of soap, because teeth marks will earn you severe consequences. Forceful mouthsoaping, where I must take matters into my own hands and hold your nose to get you to open your mouth, will result in swollen lips, gagging and you may get your face slapped. Don’t. Push. Me.

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The spanking: We’ve discussed many of the actions that warrant corporal punishment in earlier posts, so I’m not going to list them here. The severity of your actions will warrant how I’m going to handle you and the situation. Sometimes you haven’t done enough to earn yourself a spanking with no warm-up. Other times, you might deserve a hairbrush to your cold fanny so you can have a burning hot, attention grabbing and behavior changing trip over my knee. Occasionally, you’ll be paddled so hard I know you will have to bend over the furniture with something to grip on to or you will wriggle yourself into more trouble.

For those of you that refuse to hold still, I’m going to give you a hard position to hold. Palms flat, on your knees, face to the floor, don’t even think of using your elbows. If you’re concentrating on doing what you’ve been told to do, you’re less likely to squirm around. I know you’re in pain but it’s imperative that you stay where you’re told for your own safety. If holding yourself in place, as I’ve told you to, doesn’t keep you from writhing around I’m going to grab you by the waist, bend you over and hold you myself.

You should really be able to control yourself enough to take your punishment without being strapped down but if I have to tie you down, I will. This is going to result in a very, very sore bottom for you because you’re already in trouble and then I have to expend more energy to keep you safe for your blistering. If it comes to this, you’d better………….PRAY!

I’d love to hear about some of your memorable consequences and punishments, leave them in the comments section. I read them all, though I may not respond.

Have a spanktacular week,

Ms. Kimi

 

Schoolgirl spankings: Dress code violations coming Friday 9/1/17

Transgressions…

 

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Hello Lovelies,

I often think back to my childhood and go over the naughty things I did to get myself into trouble. I think about the wicked things I didn’t get caught doing, as well as the things that I did get caught for and didn’t care for the consequence (or lack thereof) I received. I feel guilty over some, shameful about others, but many were regular childhood mistakes that you learn and grow from. Do you ever look back on your past transgressions or disobedience? Do you think of alternate punishment’s you could/should have received?

We had an alley behind our house that, for years, was just dirt. One summer, they paved the alley and installed a large rectangular drain but didn’t put the metal grate on it, instead laying a board down over it. My friend from next door and I would climb down the ladder and play house and other things in there. I got the idea to sneak a couple of my mom’s cigarettes and matches and the neighbor and I met in the drain. We choked and coughed our way through the cigarettes but then began playing with the matches. I don’t know how, but I singed my eyelashes and eyebrow off of one eye.

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Everything would have been fine but the neighbor’s didn’t smoke and could smell the smoke on her right away. Not long after I got home, here came her Dad who informed my Mom that we had been smoking cigarettes. My eyelashes and eyebrow didn’t help corroborate my denial. I told a huge lie, saying Maggie had forced me to play with the matches, that she pushed one toward my eye saying if I didn’t do what she wanted, she would stick the match in my eye.

My Mom said I wasn’t allowed to play with Maggie again but I had no spankings, groundings or really any consequences at all for smoking the cigarettes.  She, on the other hand, got grounded and spanked. Our bedroom windows faced each others and her Father didn’t bother to close the curtains before he beat her butt. It looked like a bad one too, she cried a lot and every time we caught eye contact after that she would flip me off. Sorry, Maggie!

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Her Dad was an Attorney and Maggie was always threatening to sue me for different things. Maybe that spanking was Karma for all the fear I lived in from her constant threats, maybe not.

All I know is I have carried that around in my mind for the last 32 years and have always felt a little guilty that Maggie had to take a spanking that was meant for me. I know that I would have handled it completely different than how my Mother did but we can talk about consequences next week. One of the best parts of being a Disciplinarian, is helping you relive your transgressions and punishing you for them so you can let some of that guilt go. Role-playing is fun, too! Book an in-person session on SpanketySpank.com. If you’re in the US, I can travel to you, I travel monthly, or you can come and visit me in Colorado.

Please share some of your misdeeds in the comments. I read them all, though I may not respond.

Have a spanktabulous week and BE GOOD,

                     Ms. Kimi

Hold me tight and spank me right!

Hello Lovelies! How has your week been so far? Colorado has belly flopped into summer

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with a hard and unforgiving smack. It’s hot! One of my favorite things to do when it’s hot outside is to stay inside the cool, air conditioned house and spank, spank spank.

(Yeah, yeah, yeah,  spanking is my favorite thing to do year round.) I was trying to decide what my favorite spanking position is and I can’t. It’s like asking me to choose a favorite implement-impossible!

I adore OTK spankings but it can become uncomfortable for me. When I was a child, I injured my wrist and the injury never healed properly. If I spank you over my knee for an extended period of time (let’s say over 25 minutes), my wrist begins to ache. I am good at switching back and forth between hands, which helps me keep going, pain free, for much longer. So, I tend to switch around in positions- Standing, hands on your knees, bent over the bed, bent over some furniture, laying on the bed over a pillow, etc.

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I do have an extra favorite that I use with some of my clients- I sit on the bed with my back against the headboard. You put your head over my feet and straddle me, then nestle your privates between my legs. It’s a variation of the wheelbarrow that is comfortable for everyone and I can give you a little squeeze from time to time if you’re squirming too much. It works well for women too. If you’re looking for exposure, possibly humiliation, this is a good position because EVERYTHING is exposed! It can also be a nice position for a sensual, slow, teasing =)

I also enjoy the diaper position very much. It, too, can lend itself well to a bit of humiliation if that’s what you’re trying to accomplish. It gives you access to areas of the buttocks you wouldn’t have a way to get to typically and stretches the skin nice and taut so the spankee can feel everything more intensely, which is also why you should use extra care when spanking someone in this position.

So, spill the beans- what is your favorite spanking position and why??? Have a spanktastic week and stay cool!

Spanks and hugs,

Ms. Kimi

 

Disciplinary spankings work…don’t they?

Hello Lovelies,

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Have you been taking any time for yourself? Summer is a good time to stop and smell the roses but don’t let that take away from what’s important. We tend to let things slide during the summer and that can land in you a mess of trouble. Putting things off is how you end up in over your head and you know what happens when you wind up in the deep end, don’t you? Yes, YOU get a lengthy trip over my lap for a bare bottom spanking!

 

I thoroughly enjoy all aspects of a disciplinary spanking. Hell, we’re being honest here, I enjoy spanking. Period. (that’s beside the point.) From the disrobing and inspection of your naughty bottom until the last minute- with you in the corner, wanting to rub your penitent, remorseful bottom. I enjoy it all.

Most everyone I chat with, say they love the thought of the spanking, the anticipation of

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what’s to come, the scolding- it all makes for an exciting experience. When it comes down to the spanking itself, they don’t actually enjoy it until it’s over and they then enjoy the marks, the sore muscles, the feelings of relief and release. So, let me ask you this, does a disciplinary spanking actually work to help you modify your behavior?

I see many people, repeatedly, for the same scenario but it’s for a role play SCENE, a fantasy, if you will. What about when it’s for an actual transgression? Have you ever been spanked for a real misdeed as an adult and, if so, did you find it helped change your negative behavior? Or, is it more of a reward? I think I know the answer, but I want to hear it from you.

Please share your thoughts and book your session.

Spanks and hugs,

Ms. Kimi

Have a spanking favorite?

Hello Lovelies,

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I hope you are enjoying warmer weather and the hints of summer. Last week, I asked how you prepare for a spanking and this week, I’ve been thinking of the session itself. There are so many pieces that make up a spanking, aren’t there? It makes me wonder, do you have a favorite part of a spanking?

Anticipation (a biggie for both the Disciplinarian and yourself.) I can’t tell you how many of you have been thoughtful enough to try and bring that in to play for me. I get emails counting down the days, I get questions that inspire my imagination to kick in to high gear, I get stories- and the list goes on. Is the anticipation your favorite part? How important is it to you? You can read a former blog post I wrote about anticipation here.

 

Choosing your undergarments? I know this is a piece of the bigger picture for many of you and others don’t give it a second thought. I have seen men and women in their sexiest lingerie, boys who want to be taken back to their youth who choose “tightie whities”, naughty’s who want to go for the shock factor and wear nothing at all under their clothes. How important is choosing what you’ll wear, or not wear, to your session?

The disrobing can be an exciting and/or humiliating experience. Who wants “Mom” or “Auntie” to see them naked, exposed and SO vulnerable? It can be quite a thrill to be complimented on your selection. You chose a luxurious pair of silky, lacy, barely there Vicky Secrets, you wonder if you’ll be praised for this brazen choice or chastised for dressing inappropriately?

Blistering my naughty nephew (4)How about the foreboding dread that seems to consume you, as you assume the position, and your fear about what is to come? Wondering if the first swat will be over your underpants or on the bare? What implements will be used, etc.?

Does the position matter to you? Being taken over the knee can help catapult you into your childhood but so can being bent over a desk in a classroom setting. Any favorite positions?

No funny business 3The scolding, will it create shame or will you go in the complete opposite direction and feel justified in what you’ve done? Will it make you submissive and remorseful or illicit anger and bring out your defiance? Will you fess up or continue to lie and deny? Do you want the scolding to continue throughout your spanking or does it serve its purpose just before the first smack lands? Does it help you accept responsibility for what you’ve done? Is the scolding your most favorite part of a scene?

I will continue this discussion next week and look forward to your comments!

Spanks and hugs,

Ms. Kimi

P.S. I’m excited!! I just recorded a NEW NiteFlirt call- “Panty sniffing snoop.” I’m kind of disappointed they made me change my original title, “Spanking my panty sniffing stepson” but I have to follow their rules. Same content, different title. This call is available to listen to 24/7 and you can view the listing here- Ms. Kimi’s NiteFlirt or you can call and listen to it, directly, here- 1-800-TO-FLIRT Extension 1131-3591. It’s a 12 minute call. (You can ALWAYS send a contact form to book a private, one-on-one, live call with me.) I’ll be waiting…

How do you prepare for a spanking?

Hello Lovelies,

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How have you been? I enjoyed Lone Star Spanking Party and feel it safe to say that a good time was had by most, if not, all. I volunteered in Registration (Although I was late. Shame on me!) and again at the Spanking Booth to raise money for cancer research. I was in the last time slot of the day, attendance appeared to be down by that point but I enjoyed those of you I spanked and it was for a good cause.  I think over the two day period, they ended up raising a decent amount of money to donate.

I spanked at the naughty boy’s party- that is always interesting. I met many Disciplinarians that I hadn’t before and got to watch several in action. (They were all awesome!) I filmed a few clips, which will be out next month. I had the opportunity to meet several new folks from the spanking community, which was nice. Best of all, I sessioned with some of you naughty boys and had a wonderful time.

The following weekend, I visited Omaha and spanked most of my regular clients as well as a few new ones. I wasn’t there long, so it was a bit of a marathon of spanking (lucky me!!!) and it got me thinking. What do you do to prepare for a spanking?

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I know what I do to prepare. I shower, shave, choose my costume/outfit according to what “role” I’m playing, lay out implements that I anticipate needing based on our discussions prior to the session via email.

If I’m in town, I prepare the room- will I need to put up the chalk board for a school type setting and get out the school desk, will it be domestic- do I need to ready the “bed”, is it a fantasy spanking and I need to put out props that might enhance your experience?

I, attempt, to select music that may take you back in time to the days that you are trying to recreate, I re-read our correspondence so it’s fresh in my mind when you arrive for your session and set out mints, water, cream to rub on your oh so stingy, burning hot behind when I’ve finished disciplining you, but what do you do?

I imagine you thinking of what is to come, getting butterflies in your stomach- that nervous anticipation. Showering, debating between selecting the white cotton underwear, your daily colorful underwear, the thong or the silkiest, satin panties. On the drive over, I picture you, playing nostalgic tunes to try and get yourself into a head space of years gone by, but finding you can’t focus on the music because you’re too targeted in on your racing thoughts, the what-if’s and as you get closer, your ever-increasing heart rate.

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By the time you arrive, you’re shaking, maybe having a hard time breathing and a pit of dread has formed in your stomach because you know you need a spanking but don’t necessarily want one. You’re nervous, wondering what I’ll be like, what I’ll do or say.

By the time most of you get to me, you’re like quivering little boys and girls. That’s just how I like it! I feed off of you and your mood. I drink the power-exchange in as though it’s a fine wine. The majority of you are bursting with excitement and that gets me excited, as well.

Spanking is one of the most humbling, intimate, exciting and, possibly, humiliating experiences that one can engage in. You are giving up your power, your control, to me and entrusting me to keep you safe and do what’s best for you. I accept that responsibility whole heartedly and love you for giving it to me.

So, how right or wrong am I? Am I making this a bigger deal in my head than it really is to you? Am I minimizing it? Please share in the comments.

Spanks and hugs,

Ms. Kimi

 

 

 

When the punishment’s over…

Hello Lovelies

I was in Portland again last weekend for KinkFest and had a really lovely time. I sessioned and worked at the vendor fair, the weather was gorgeous. I met so many wonderful people and you were all very kind, having many complimentary things to say about my work. Thank you!!

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After my session, I was thinking about how things go after the punishment has ended. I wonder what most of you do after you’ve been spanked. Do you relax and stretch out on the bed, relishing in the delicious heat that’s spread across your backside? Delight in the sting that the Arnica gel imparts to your swollen and tender bottom? Welcome some cool and soothing lotion gently caressed into your burning hot buns? Or, are you a purist and want to feel everything without anything to relieve it?

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Do you put away the implements that have just been used on your bottom and wish you’d made better choices? Put away the implements that were used to adjust your attitude and wish you had more coming? Perhaps, you aren’t allowed to touch the tools your Disciplinarian uses to teach you a lesson? How does it go? Does your punishment end after the spanking or has it only just begun?

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I’m sure there are many different answers, depending on various factors like the type of spanking that was administered.  Each of my sessions end differently, but I’m curious how it goes for you.

Spanks and hugs,

     Ms. Kimi