My spanking adventures…

Hello Lovelies!

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Kay and I had a hot scene at Crimson Moon with our new friend. Too bad we didn’t record that one for you!

I had a wonderful time at Crimson Moon and met many people that I hadn’t had the opportunity to meet before. I had one short scene that I’ve been thinking about over and over. It was with a sweet young woman during an F/f suite party that I attended. It was the kind of scene that resonates with you. No matter what’s going on around you, it’s as though time stops and everything around you disappears.

Her friend brought her over to introduce her to me, which was adorable in itself.  We played and then I allowed her to give me a few swats as well, which some people found to be hilarious (Kay!) I’m not going to go into any additional details, I think that would just be rude but I had a marvelous time.

Unfortunately, I had to cut it short. I, momentarily, forgot I was filming another scene shortly after this with three lovely ladies. When the thought popped into my head, I began to worry that I would exhaust my arm and wouldn’t be able to film a proper spanking scene with the three other women. I regret letting my thoughts get the better of me because I would have been just fine.

Do you ever get into a scene that sticks with you for days after? I reminisce about many sessions I have, with many of you, but sometimes there’s one that really sticks out. Not that this was a session, it was simply for fun (and I thoroughly enjoyed it!) I got the feeling she was enjoying it while it was happening, too, but she did add a bratty little comment at the end, “Thanks for the warm-up!” That drew me in even more. Oh, how I love brats! I doubt she reads my blog but if, in case, she does – I’d like to add a “to be continued” sign to our scene. I told her she wore me out and in a way she did but, it was much more my mind getting in the way.

See, many of you come to see me and tell me how therapeutic your session was, but I don’t think you know that’s it’s usually therapeutic for me, as well. For that I thank you. If you’ve been over my knee, my spanking benches, my massage table, my furniture, my bed, up against my wall or in any way across my lap or under my hands- thank you.

I had a completely different blog post planned for this week but it can wait while I bask in my memories of one very short scene with an adorable young woman I met at Crimson Moon. I’m mentioning all of this to help remind you that life is short, live it how ever you want to. Don’t let your fears, worries or doubts get the best of you. Thanks for reading, we’ll get back on track for the next blog. ;o)

Spanks and hugs,

Ms. Kimi

P.S. I released a new series of spanking videos last week that I’m very excited and proud of. It’s called Through Maggie’s Window. It’s a series about my childhood and all of the naughty things I used to do with my neighbor friend, Maggie. We got caught too many times to count and it always seemed I was watching her parents punish her through her bedroom window. When I was telling you about an incident we’d had in a former blogpost (which you can read here), it made me think of creating a series.

Through Maggies window playing with matches (4)Through Maggies window playing with matches (7)A very special friend of mine agreed to play Maggie in the video series, her name is AndyJohnsGirl. I’m not quite sure how often I’ll release them but I wanted to make note of it here so you can be sure to check it out. Through Maggie’s window MP4 or Through Maggie’s window WMV. I hope you will enjoy the series- the first video is called playing with matches.

Panties, paddles & airport security…

Hello Lovelies,

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Hairbrushed hiney MP4

I just returned from Omaha and had a great trip! On my way home to Denver, airport security decided my implements looked scary in the x-ray machine, so they had to empty and search my carry-on bag. There’s nothing quite like having your panties and paddles being thrown into a bin and paraded through the security line.

They wanted to know what my implements were used for and I said spanking. The gal searching my bag was amused and tried to speak quietly in a hushed tone- I assume she was trying NOT to embarrass me. She called her Supervisor over, who was not so amused and who appeared to want to embarrass me. He pulled my shrink wrapped pile of paddles out of the bin, inspected them and said, “These are whoopin’ sticks”.  It took everything I had not to burst out laughing!

When I confirmed that yes, they are used for spanking, he held them up towards the light (like you could see through them) and then decided he needed to show some of his other co-workers. It was quite the show and a complete waste of my time but I would have been in the airport anyway so give the vanilla’s a little thrill, I guess. He really deserved a good spanking, for many reasons, but I didn’t feel like going to jail.

Finally, he muttered something about 7 pounds and deemed my

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Hairbrushed hiney WMV 

implements “tools”.  They made me choose- check the bag (for $45) or they confiscate the implements (probably hundreds of dollars). I went with check it and was grateful they offered me the choice.

I’m not sure if I will continue to take them with me in a carry-on anymore. I’ve never had a problem with them before so, maybe I will arrive early and try it again. I’m not shy or embarrassed about my implements or profession but if I had been traveling with someone and we really needed to catch our flight, I would hate to be the reason we missed it.

Anyway, I’m thinking about buying all new implements when I arrive at Crimson Moon and having them shipped home! I’m kidding…That would cost a fortune! Just a few select new pieces, which reminds me, I’d better use a bigger bag that weekend.

All of this leads me to ask- do you carry-on or check if you have spanking gear with you? Have any advice on packing implements? Maybe you don’t have the same problems I have?! Please leave your suggestions and advice in the comments section.

Spanks and hugs,

Ms. Kimi

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Because I told you so…

Hello Lovelies,

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Welted with my wooden spoon MP4

People get away with far too much these days, yourself included. That’s right, I said it. You think you can get away with rude, selfish behavior because no one’s watching you. You think you can break the rules & laws because you don’t have anyone to tell you not to, or at least not anyone who will, literally, crack down on your rear end. There is no justification for your behavior. Your anger, selfishness and impatience go unpunished and that’s all about to change.

You need to fear the consequences of your actions. If you even think about stepping out of line, you need to know that you’ll be taken to task. Every transgression, disobedience and infraction will be dealt with accordingly. You need someone who won’t hold back when you need a good tongue-lashing, followed by some serious behavior modification therapy. You need to take this seriously, because I am talking to you. My finger is pointing at you- don’t you look over your shoulder as if I mean the person behind you or next to you.

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Welted with my wooden spoon WMV

You need someone in your life who is going to make you sit up and take notice of other people’s needs and desires, not just your own. Someone who will keep you on the track to success. Someone who won’t listen to your whining, your attempts to finagle your way out of consequences or who ignores your most shameful behavior. And guess what? That someone? It’s me.

You no longer have any acceptable excuses for why you can’t find someone who will take all of the necessary steps to keep you in line. I sit here before you, empty lap, awaiting your descent over it- to take every last bit of punishment you deserve; every last swat and smack you need to stop playing the martyr and get your act together.

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You can see all of my spanking clips right here.

Do you know what I’m going to do with you when you come to see me? I’m going to spank your naughty bottom. Yes, I’m going to spank, paddle, hairbrush, spoon, strap, belt and cane your backside until you can’t sit down on it. I’m going to teach you a lesson you will never forget and you are going to appreciate that I care so much. You are going to get to a point when you know you need to see me because you feel out of control. You always say how you feel like you need discipline in your life and now, you know just where to get it and it’s all because I told you so. Book now.

Spanks and hugs,

Ms. Kimi

 

Warming my hands…

 Hello lovelies,

This week has been filled to the brim with filming and sessions! The weather has cooled down in Colorado. It was rainy and cold most of the week, which made me want to snuggle up in a warm blanket and watch Netflix, but no time for that. Instead, I got to warm my hands on some cute backsides while setting their naughty little bottom’s on fire. I don’t think anything could have been better! I’ve finalized my travel schedule for the year and look forward to meeting many of you on those travels. If you’re still “thinking” about requesting a session, you’d better hurry up and do it, time slots are filling quickly.

@MichaelDonovan and @CherishMommaKay were in town this week and we spent two days filming all kinds of great content!

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Spanked while he watches MP4
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Spanked while he watches WMV
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We took turns spanking him in this clip- soon to be released.
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Michael Donovan’s bottom was hot, hot, hot when we got finished with him, so I was rubbing some Arnica gel on him.

Are any of you going to Crimson Moon? This is my first time attending and I’m very much looking forward to it. If you have any pointers or suggestions on things I must see or do, I’d love to hear them. If you see me there, please say hi. It’s always nice to put a face with a name. That’s it for today. I’m going to go and rest up for more filming and sessions tomorrow.

Spanks and hugs,

Ms. Kimi

I’m going to give you a spanking YOU can’t handle…

Hello Lovelies,

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Paddling two naughty boys MP4

Think about when you were a child and got into enough trouble that you were going to be spanked. Did your parents pause and ask how much you could take? NO! Did they ask you which implement you’d like them to use? Never! Did they hear you cry and stop to rub your bottom? Probably not. Did they pause, twenty swats in to ask if you’d had enough? Mine sure didn’t. If you want a realistic domestic discipline spanking with me, you get very little say so in it.

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Paddling two naughty boys WMV

I had a session today where, as always, limits were discussed via email prior to. The limit set was no bleeding; I could bruise, blister and mark his bottom but I was not to make him bleed. Aside from that, he wanted me to give him a spanking he couldn’t handle but had no choice other than accept and go along with it. He wanted a “real childhood type spanking” he would have received from his mother. It was left up to me to decide when he’d learned his lesson and therefore had had enough. (Now, I’d like to mention that this is a regular client of mine. I know what his limits are and push them whenever possible. However, he trusts me and I would never do anything to jeopardize that. Yet another reason to see a Disciplinarian regularly but, I digress)

There were no safe words given, no choices for him to make, he didn’t care how long or short it was or what implements I used. He provided me with the reason he was being spanked, a few phrases his mother would have said, then he showed up for his appointment and I gave him a very severe spanking.

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Soaping, spanking and bath brushing to tears MP4

He gave up his constraints, let his inhibitions loose, his guard down and bawled like a baby. He cried out that it hurt and he asked, multiple times, if it was over. He had carried guilt about this naughty act for nearly forty years and felt he’d never received his just punishment for it. Do you know what he said when I finished? “Thank you, Ma’am. I really needed that”. He was so relieved to take his penance, that the only thing he could do was thank me when it was over.

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Soaping, spanking and bath brushing to tears WMV

I receive so many emails saying, “I want a true domestic discipline scenario”, I have asked my wife (or husband) but no matter what I say, she (or he) can’t bring themselves to hurt me. I understand not wanting to hurt a loved one, I also understand that this isn’t always a want but more likely a need. Spanking can be therapeutic, a release, it can also be beneficial emotionally. People who aren’t hard-wired like we are don’t understand that. I’ve chatted with more than enough people to know that you usually can’t convince someone to give you a spanking and if you do, their spanking isn’t going to convince you that their heart was in it.

I’m happy to help coach your husband or wife so that they feel confident that they are applying the correct techniques in a safe manner. (Yes, I see couples.) Or, if they just can’t bring themselves to do it, I would be honored to spank you; not only spank you but make it harsh enough for you to get creative in trying to find ways out of it and long enough to get past that point. Yes, I’m going to give you a spanking YOU can’t handle and you’re going to thank me for it, too.

Spanks and hugs,

Ms. Kimi

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What phrases get you going?

Hello Lovelies,

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Cropping my son ’til it hurts MP4 $6.99

Have you been behaving yourself this week? My guess is, NO! I’d like to start off by saying I’ve received a few contact forms with the wrong email address lately. Either someone thinks they’re funny or some of you have been rushing and adding your email incorrectly. If you’ve sent me a contact form and have not heard back from me, please re-send it. I’ve responded to all contact forms and have gotten several MAILER-DAEMON notices in return. The last one was yesterday morning from someone in Denver. That’s a waste of everyone’s time, so please, complete the contact form with care, enter your email address correctly and double check it.

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Cropping my son ’til it hurts

*******************************TRAVEL UPDATE*************************************   I will be visiting Portland, OR either October 13, 14 & 15th or November 10, 11 & 12th. I realize it’s hard to book if you don’t know when. Please send a contact form to show interest and I will let you know the dates as soon as I have them. DOUBLE CHECK YOUR EMAIL ADDRESS ENTRY!

I will be attending Crimson Moons near Chicago, IL October 26th, 27th & 28th. Please book now, I like to know what I’m doing ahead of time and last minute sessions throw a wrinkle in that. Click here to book for Crimson Moons

I will be visiting Omaha, NE whichever date I don’t go to Portland; October 13, 14, 15 or November 10, 11, 12. Click here to book for Omaha, NE. DOUBLE CHECK YOUR EMAIL ADDRESS ENTRY!

I will be visiting Ann Arbor, MI December 14 & 15. Please Book here for Ann Arbor, MI– (Very limited availability.) DOUBLE CHECK YOUR EMAIL ADDRESS ENTRY!

I will be visiting Long Island, NY December 16 & 17th. Click here to book for Long Island, NY. (Very limited availability.) DOUBLE CHECK YOUR EMAIL ADDRESS ENTRY!

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Now, on to the blog post.

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Cropping my son ’til it hurts WMV $6.99

I find myself saying, “I am so disappointed in you”, multiple times in (nearly) every single spanking video I make. I don’t say it as much in person unless I know that individual well and they truly have disappointed me. I feel like it can be a phrase that triggers a lot of guilt & anxiety (maybe a few tears) so I typically use it with care but not so much when filming. I try to make realistic clips with true emotions, reactions, scenarios (Okay, not all the time!) and consequences but the fact of the matter is, it’s just not as personal as a session or when playing with someone close to me. There are lights and cameras and it’s start and stop sometimes. Don’t get me wrong, I love making clips! I enjoy sharing a bit of my world with you and I hope you enjoy watching them. But, it’s still not quite as authentic to me and I need your help.

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Coming Friday, 9/22/17 – Paddling two naughty boys.

I’ve noticed I tend to say, “I’m going to blister your butt” frequently, too. I was editing footage the other day and thought, Wow, how many times can I possibly say that?! While it’s true, I am gonna blister your butt, I’m tired of hearing myself say it on cam. It’s like I’m stuck in a rut or something. Does that ever happen to you? You get stuck on something and can’t think of the other things you used to do or say before that? I had one of my Life Coaching clients say she was stuck when planning her menu and she can’t think of what she used to fix before. My brain went ding, ding, ding- that’s you and those two phrases! I don’t know if that makes sense to you but whatever’s happening, I’m stuck in it.

All of the processing above made me think about you and what words/sayings/phrases get you going. Whether “get you going” means crying, feeling guilty, getting butterflies from anticipation, makes you excited or feeling like you’re all ears. Whatever it is, won’t you please – please – share it?

Share those special words and phrases to help pull me out of this never ending tunnel of

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Coming Friday, 9/22/17- Paddling two naughty boys.

“I’m so disappointed in you’s and I’m gonna blister your butt’s”. I need something fresh and new, something to grab hold of my brain and shake those hidden gems out of there. At the very least, something to make me say oh yeah, that’s a great one. I’m confident that you’re just the right person to help me!

I suppose I could just go with, “you deserve a good, sound, bare bottom spanking over my knee!”, emphasized by holding my hair brush <Insert evil grin here> That one’s reserved for my in person naughties, because let’s face it, that’s is 100% true of 100% of you that enter through Spanktopia’s door. Mwah, thanks in advance for your help.

Spanks and hugs,

Ms. Kimi

Spanking Q & A…

Hello Lovelies,

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Punishing my husband WMV

I receive emails from Spankos, on the daily, who ask similar questions. I thought I’d put together a blog post to answer them. These answers are my own; I’m not speaking for other Disciplinarians, only myself. Nor are my answers all inclusive or written in stone, they can change as I change and grow and learn. Happy spanking reading!

Q: How do you decide what implements to use? A- If you’re new to spanking, please be honest about it! You’ll have a much better experience if you tell me the truth. If you’ve never experimented on your own, I would highly recommend doing so. Yes, I’m suggesting you spank yourself.

Now, this isn’t going to be the same as receiving a spanking from someone else but it will give you the opportunity to see what different implements feel like. Try using things from your home first like a hairbrush, small wooden cutting board, wooden spoon, leather belt (if you can) and so on. This will give us an idea of what you’re drawn to.

Then, we can test other things out during your session to confirm your findings. I understand you’re eager to get your session started but it’s advisable to try different things so I can get an idea of what implement to use for each type of session, whether that be punishment, sensual, role play, etc.

If you’re a regular client, we’ve had that conversation in the beginning and I’ve made mental note. I’m not going to ask you, so if you would like to try something new, ask me. I’m very open to changing it up and I won’t be offended.

Q: How do you decide how long the spanking should be? A: Sessions are typically an hour. Some naughties book for a longer period of time. I can and will spank you for close to an hour or more unless that is going against your limits in some way. (No blood, no bruises, etc.) This is different than if we were in a domestic setting, relationship or I was your mommy. Then, I’d spank you until I thought you learned your lesson and I was finished.

Q: How do you decide how hard to spank me? A: I’m a firm believer in the punishment should fit the crime, so, cursing- mouth soaping, driving while intoxicated- a severe spanking, on and on. However, not everyone is open to mouth soaping and if you tell me you do not want any part of a mouth soaping, I will have to get creative, but I will honor your limits.

Q: How do you decide when I’ve had enough? A: We discuss your limits prior to the session. For instance, you told me that you do not want bruising. I can’t guarantee there will be no bruising, but I will do my very best to honor your limits. If you begin to bruise during the session I might stop and discuss it with you or switch to a different spot or implement and definitely adjust the level of impact, meaning I would spank you less hard. That is all a judgment call I make in the moment and have gotten very good at over the years.

Q: What happens if I get “excited” when I go across your lap? A: This is very common. You won’t be the first, nor will you be the last. If you tend to “drip” a lot and you know it, I’d appreciate a head’s up so I can put a towel across my lap. You get extra points if you bring a towel and offer to drape it across my lap.

Thoughtfulness will always earn you a special place in my heart. You wouldn’t be in a session with me if I didn’t already know you were thoughtful because I don’t see people who are rude, crude or socially unacceptable. Of course you can be rude, crass, and downright naughty if we’re role playing, that’s acceptable, but you’d better be polite upfront or NO SESSION FOR YOU!! (Remember that when you’re corresponding with me or your email will get tossed out and you will be ignored/blocked.)

Q: What if you decide I need another punishment during my session? Say I cursed or smarted off – would I have to have a mouth soaping? A: I touched on this a bit above, but I’ll go over it again =D You and I will communicate via email prior to the session. I will ask you what your limits are and you need to list what you don’t want. I realize that most people don’t want a mouth soaping, but you may be open to it if I find a reason to give it to you. It’s also okay to say, I’ve never had a mouth soaping before but I’m open to trying it or I want a severe mouth soaping where I can’t talk because my lips are so swollen. (Yes, I’ve given this kind before.)

I hope you’re beginning to understand that open, honest communication with me is the key to having a pleasurable positive experience during your session. I enjoy reading about your fantasies and always appreciate when you include them if they are a part of what you envision during your time with me.

Q: Should I tip you? A: It’s a very nice gesture to tip if you’ve had a spanktastic experience, but its not required. I realize that some of you may have just barely been able to scrape together my hourly fee and that’s ok. If you’re able to tip, it’s always appreciated.

Q: Your rates are so high! Why would I pay you to spank me? I want a real woman to spank me. I don’t pay to play. A: To that I say, you are an ignorant asshole. Crawl back into the hole from which you came. Just because I get paid to do something I love does not make me any less of a woman.

I challenge you, oh rude one, to find a “real” woman who has/will: put years into learning safe techniques on various implements, invested a small fortune into implements, is willing to dress up for you, role play with you, set everything up an hour before you show up, take everything down after you leave, sanitize every piece of equipment that was used on you including the sheets, massage table, spanking benches or implements, travel to you and lastly, but most importantly, not permanently injure you because she didn’t know what she was doing. You might want to rethink your strategy here before turning a woman loose with an object and objective of hitting you.

These types of emails are ridiculous! Why bother to waste your time writing this or my time in reading it? Get a life!

Q: What if I have health problems? Does that mean you won’t see me? A: I need certain information from you and I need you to be honest about it. I’m not going to turn you away because of every health issue but I might need additional information from you. If you have health issues such as Diabetes, Hypoglycemia, heart problems, bad knees or ANY medical condition that could cause you to become unconscious during our session, you need to tell me BEFORE our session.

Q: What if I can’t be bruised because my wife will find out? A: Good for you for taking care of your needs. Please don’t feel guilty about it, there’s no sex and no “cheating” here. Please don’t tell me about how your wife and you have a non-existent sex life. That’s not my business and I’m not your Therapist. I’m sorry if that sounds snooty or uncaring but I’m here to take care of your “spanking therapy”. Save that talk for the marriage counselor or your Therapist.

I ask everyone I email with before the session how they feel about bruising. Your answers can include: No bruising! -or- I’m a Masochist; whip me, beat me, make me bleed, heavy spanking’s what I need! -or- I’m somewhere in between -or- any variation of those. =D

I could go on forever here. That’s enough spanking Q&A for today. I hope this helps clear up a little confusion and aids you in getting over the proverbial hump that is booking your session. Book your session today. Do it now. Don’t wait. Because I said so

Spanks and hugs,

Ms. Kimi