Think about when you were a child and got into enough trouble that you were going to be spanked. Did your parents pause and ask how much you could take? NO! Did they ask you which implement you’d like them to use? Never! Did they hear you cry and stop to rub your bottom? Probably not. Did they pause, twenty swats in to ask if you’d had enough? Mine sure didn’t. If you want a realistic domestic discipline spanking with me, you get very little say so in it.
I had a session today where, as always, limits were discussed via email prior to. The limit set was no bleeding; I could bruise, blister and mark his bottom but I was not to make him bleed. Aside from that, he wanted me to give him a spanking he couldn’t handle but had no choice other than accept and go along with it. He wanted a “real childhood type spanking” he would have received from his mother. It was left up to me to decide when he’d learned his lesson and therefore had had enough. (Now, I’d like to mention that this is a regular client of mine. I know what his limits are and push them whenever possible. However, he trusts me and I would never do anything to jeopardize that. Yet another reason to see a Disciplinarian regularly but, I digress)
There were no safe words given, no choices for him to make, he didn’t care how long or short it was or what implements I used. He provided me with the reason he was being spanked, a few phrases his mother would have said, then he showed up for his appointment and I gave him a very severe spanking.
He gave up his constraints, let his inhibitions loose, his guard down and bawled like a baby. He cried out that it hurt and he asked, multiple times, if it was over. He had carried guilt about this naughty act for nearly forty years and felt he’d never received his just punishment for it. Do you know what he said when I finished? “Thank you, Ma’am. I really needed that”. He was so relieved to take his penance, that the only thing he could do was thank me when it was over.
I receive so many emails saying, “I want a true domestic discipline scenario”, I have asked my wife (or husband) but no matter what I say, she (or he) can’t bring themselves to hurt me. I understand not wanting to hurt a loved one, I also understand that this isn’t always a want but more likely a need. Spanking can be therapeutic, a release, it can also be beneficial emotionally. People who aren’t hard-wired like we are don’t understand that. I’ve chatted with more than enough people to know that you usually can’t convince someone to give you a spanking and if you do, their spanking isn’t going to convince you that their heart was in it.
I’m happy to help coach your husband or wife so that they feel confident that they are applying the correct techniques in a safe manner. (Yes, I see couples.) Or, if they just can’t bring themselves to do it, I would be honored to spank you; not only spank you but make it harsh enough for you to get creative in trying to find ways out of it and long enough to get past that point. Yes, I’m going to give you a spanking YOU can’t handle and you’re going to thank me for it, too.
Spanks and hugs,
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